7 Things Guys really wish Women understand Better

 
Things Guys Look for in a Girlfriend
Based on experience and studies it can be identified that what most
men look for in a girlfriend are the attributes below.


1.) Love
Guys do expect their girlfriend to be in love with them, there needs to
exist an element of emotional attraction along with the physical
intimacy. Without this emotional bonding the relationship becomes
hollow in sometime.
Guys tend to share their emotions and inner feelings with their
girlfriend. In truth they hardly share their emotional side with their male
friends – so a girlfriend does become a very special person in his life.

2.) Company
Even if he has a lot of guy friends to hang out with, they cannot fulfil
the part a girl can play in his life. A guy’s need for emotional intimacy
and closeness is satisfied only in the company of his girlfriend.
Most guys feel at peace when they are in a stable relationship with
their girlfriend because there’s a deep need for feminine intimacy in a
man’s life. So a good company is one of the most basic attributes that
a guy look for in a girlfriend.

3.) Inner and External Beauty
Physical attractiveness is important to both men as well as women and
there is no doubt about it. But what also needs to be noted is that
beauty in the absence of other feminine features like – tenderness,
warmth, kindness and caring nature – can easily offset a man’s
interest in the long run.
A girl who has the strength of inner beauty and femininity would make
for a much better girlfriend than a girl with spectacular looks who
exhibits coldness.

4.) Intimacy
Physical closeness and sexual intimacy fulfils a deep need for bonding,
and this is true for both men and women. Men do look for deep
intimacy with their girlfriend.
But it’s not just sexual intimacy that guys look; simple acts of physical
intimacy like hugging, kissing or just cuddling can be just as satisfying.

5.) Playfulness
Guys usually have a carefree streak to them and they prefer girls who
are laid back and playful to girls are constantly in a negative mood.
Playfulness is something everyone is born with, but most people lose
this part of their personality due to pressures of daily living.
There is a lot less friction and dissatisfaction in a relationship where
the girl stays cheerful and laid back.

6.) Trust
This is another attribute that is common to both men and women. Guys
need in their girlfriend a girl whom they can trust and a girl who trusts
them back.

7.) Friendship
Only a girl can be a guy’s best friend, for a good reason that most guys
avoid sharing their emotional side with their male friends. Friendship is
usually prior to an intimate relationship and guys want that from their
girlfriend. Guys do look to their girlfriend to usurp the place of a best
friend in their life.
In conclusion, a girlfriend is just what the name specifies – a girl who
becomes a guy’s best friend. Emotional bonding is what holds the
relationship together. If you are a girl who is hung up with the idea that
sex is all that guys look for in their girlfriend – you’ve not been meeting
the right guys.