Reasons You Should Never Force A Relationship On A Lady

This ‘letter’ has two purposes: To Warn and to Advice.

 The Warning Part A friend once told me of how a guy was pestering her life
with all manner of suggestive texts and suspicious
gestures, trying to FORCE her into an unscrupulous
relationship.

I was pissed because my dear was being threatened and
more pissed because he was ignorantly stubborn hoping he
could date someone like my friend- who’s got morals.
Some guys of today, go around with the malicious mindset
that the size of their m*****d can substitute the size of their
“mindhood”. Simply put: Don’t build your life around No
girl- It’s not worth it. Build around a worthy goal and all
these other things shall be added unto you It’s plain
illiteracy to go after a girl that way!

The Advice Part

This is like the body of this thread;
REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER FORCE YOURSELF ON ANY
GIRL, in view of a relationship.
Quickly, let’s see a few:


1. All ladies are the same
I’m not on the contrary… You see, it beats my imagination
how guys move from one girl to another, does she have a
different ‘privy part’ from the other girl? Because, that’s
the major reasons guys cheat. Don’t FORCE yourself on any girl
because there is so much more than meets the eye, so
carefully take note of the nuances and unspoken words,
body movements and gestures. Break Up is an unnecessary
evil.

2. We are told to Approach and not to Encroach
In my little time around ladies, whether friends or crushes;
I’ve discovered that you could actually be encroaching
thinking you are approaching. Before getting too involved,
be sure it’s not in vain. “Years Of Friendzoning Makes A
Guy Look Like He’s Been Duped”
Approach her if you like her. When you discover her heart
is elsewhere, dump her.

3. Girls Need Guys More Than Guys Need Them
Am I quoting Scriptures here? Before someone calls me a
chauvinist, the Bible spoke about, in the ET, it will be seven
ladies to just one guy. Take it or leave it, girls wish they
could ask guys out . For many reasons; Protection,
Financial assistance, Warmth, Leadership, Companionship
etc. Guys, don’t FORCE yourself on any lady, whosoever
please.

4. It Sends The Wrong Signal
Trying to get her to like you in a short period of time sends
the opposite message. Good intention, yea, but it sends a
“Desperate Call” to her. Not FORCING yourself on any
accords you some form of honour and avoid insults too.

5. The “You Forced Me Into This Relationship” Speech May
Surface.
If you didn’t understand the rest points, at least grasp this
point, don’t FORCE a girl into your life and family. If you
FORCE her to come, you’ll do same to get her to stay. Fine
or Average-looking, they’re the same; same sexual parts! In
fact, let her make the choice of choosing you without any
coercion from anyone.
Forcing a girl into a relationship with you is plain stupidity.
Who says you can’t approach?

You can but don’t use the law of Force saying, “If I don’t
have you, I’ll die”— Lielie, is your name Laila?

To me, state your aim for getting close to her, watch her
reaction for days. React based on those figures.